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Peace, Connection and Community

It’s the season for looking back. There’s nothing like the change of year and a scuff of Winter snow to feel in the mood for some reflection, so here we go.
Last year, I spent Christmas with Christians and New Year’s with Buddhists. This was for practical reasons and a wish for company, not because I was looking to infuse the season with spirituality. At Christmas I attended a community dinner organised by a local church. I was very grateful to be able to go there, and sit with others in a place that felt suitably Christmassy, and eat a traditional Christmas dinner. I am not a Christian, and neither were all of the people attending the dinner. Some were widowed pensioners. Others were people doing it tough. Some were like me – just those who would otherwise have found themselves alone, or living in a new place without connections.
This is one of the things I like about The Church – not just Christian churches, but any church or religious group that makes people feel welcome whoever they are, and whatever their circumstances. The other thing I like about churches is that church communities are often actively on the lookout for ways to help others. Volunteer work is another way in which I have found myself mixing with members of religious communities or churches. A third thing I like is being inside a physical church. I like the fact that they are usually quiet. Sometimes I step inside a church just for a quiet moment – somewhere to take a deep breath, reflect and spend some peaceful time.
In light of all of these reasons, I have sometimes thought about joining a church. The issue is that I don’t meet the one key pre-requisite, which is having a belief in God. Nor do I believe in any other deity, or deities. This makes church membership rather problematic. I am sure that many members of church communities, perhaps most of them, would be only too happy to share and impart their teachings anyway. I am generally curious to learn about these teachings. But that’s it — I am simply curious in an objective kind of way. It is not a curiosity with any view to building belief or finding faith. Worship is out of the question. I have had ample opportunities to find God. I have faced circumstances in which I might reasonably have been expected to find Him. I found other things, but not God.
It is my understanding that God is like the glue that holds church communities and their members together. In Christianity, this ties into ideas about service, sacrifice and beneficence to humankind. Dedicated Christians serve God, and serving God means serving humankind. Because all humans are perceived to be part of God’s plan, they all need to be looked after and cherished. As a non-Christian I cannot see why dedication to humanity and helping others has to hinge on having a belief in God. I know, it doesn’t, yet it seems that many of the more committed organisations that help others, particularly the grassroots kind of ones, take their inspiration from a deity. It is the foundation of their community and togetherness; the very basis for their spirit of service.
Last New Year’s I was once again looking for company and community. There was a cat, a very lovely natured cat, but there is only so much one can say to a cat before it becomes a bit repetitive and one-sided. The city was promising all manner of ‘Hogmanay’ celebrations. I was looking for something that didn’t involve a primary emphasis on drink, drunkenness and partying. The Buddhists were offering that alternative. When the clocks struck twelve, the chanting of mantras marked the beginning of a new year. I liked the mantras for their tone and rhythm. I could relate to the ideas around compassion, love and simplicity. But again, there was an element of worship and belief which I struggled with. I met a non-Buddhist couple there who’d given up drinking that year. Like me, they were there for reasons of not wanting to stay at home alone, while avoiding the booze. We agreed that it seemed there were few in-between options.
A year has gone by. Thoughts about where to spend Christmas, or that New Year’s might be spent sitting at home alone, have paled into irrelevance. Christmas and New Year’s in a country at war present altogether different realities. In fact, it is easy to lose sight of festive occasions altogether, at least in the sense of thinking that one ought to be making something of them. Community is found in the things that can usefully be done together, out of necessity. There is enough commotion in the air some nights to be grateful for simple existence by morning. Planning to go anywhere carries an element of risk assessment, and a consideration of necessity. Curfews and interruptions to the internet must be taken into account when straying into new places. Fireworks are banned.
When the night involves flying things – not bats, or owls, but drones and missiles – thoughts tend to be along the lines of “go away, dastardly flying things”. Except that in wishing them “away” there is the very sobering realisation that they will go somewhere. There is the sound of attempted interception of the flying things – valiant efforts that go on at all hours of the night. Inevitably, some will still get through. “Not children – not to a house with children”, I find myself thinking. There is this tendency to start prioritising lives. Better my place, than a house with children, on two counts: one that I have lived longer; two that adults are more capable of coping with such things, should they survive them. By morning proper, the news carries reports that drones hit an apartment building and a number of children were injured. There is more talk about “negotiations” and peace talks with Putin, and commentary on Trump’s assessment that Putin “wants Ukraine to succeed”. It is hard to imagine any other situation in life where a confirmed terrorist regime and its leader are afforded serious consideration and air time.
The ‘frontlines’ of this war are in two places. They are in the places that have traditionally been ‘frontlines’ – those where fighting takes place. And they are in the civilian places – in the towns and cities where people live their lives, where children try to sleep at night, and where daily life keeps on keeping on. This New Year’s it is with a degree of hesitation that I wish anyone a “Happy New Year”. Even the most committed optimist might struggle with the sentiment. As usual, places not at war will discharge huge amounts of money into the night sky in the form of fireworks. There will be parties and celebration. This year, all I hope for is peace. “May our skies be peaceful”, as someone put it.
Image credit: A.I.
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A note about Christmas
Wishing everyone who reads this a peaceful Christmas. The text below is a note specifically addressed to those involved in the war against Ukraine. I feel the theme of peace is relevant throughout the world at this time.
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To: All soldiers of the Russian state
Subject: A note about Christmas
In case you missed the memo, it’s today – 25th December 2025. We don’t all celebrate Christmas in the same way, if we celebrate it at all. And we don’t even necessarily celebrate it at the same time. If you follow the Julian calendar instead of the Gregorian one, Christmas can land on a different day. Christmas means different things to different people. For some, their understanding of Christmas is based on a Christian tradition. For others, Christmas is a time to spend with family; a time of feasting and of fun. Across all traditions, Christmas is a time of peace.
In the popular imagination, Christmas has become linked to certain symbols and stories. It would be wrong to assume that these symbols are universally understood and interpreted in the same way. I will set out five of the common ones below so as to avoid any confusion.
- Things that fall from the sky: snowflakes.
In the Northern Hemisphere, where it’s Winter, snowflakes have become synonymous with Christmas. They appear in Christmas imagery, and on Christmas cards – even in places where it’s Summer. I am guessing you get plenty of them in Russia. I hope you take time to enjoy the peacefulness of falling snowflakes.
- Things that fly through the air: sleighs and reindeer.
Neither of these things typically fly, but at Christmas time they do. Sleighs and reindeer take on magical properties. They cover vast distances across the globe to deliver gifts, visit children, and spread the magic of Christmas.
- Things that go bang: Christmas crackers
Like them or not, these decorative little things that make loud noises are often present at the Christmas table. Both sides take an end and pull on them, and BANG! Usually there’s a (not very funny) joke inside, and maybe some candy or a plastic toy.
- The big man in red: Santa Claus
He is known for being jolly and shouting “Ho Ho Ho” a lot. Santa Claus always knows what you’re up to. He keeps track of everyone at all times, 24/7. He knows who’s doing what, and why. He has eyes in the sky (see “Things that fly through the air”).
- “An early start”: typically a comment from parents of young children on Christmas Day.
Children are often so excited, they can hardly wait for Christmas to start. At 6 or 7am, they will be under the Christmas tree. They will be eager to open presents they may have been admiring for days. Some might have been shaking and squeezing them to try and figure out what’s inside.
As you can see, Christmas can mean different things to different people, but there are common themes of peace, humanity and caring. I hope this little note about Christmas is helpful. And for those who prefer a musical version, there’s this. May peace be with you at this time.
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Towards a Lasting Peace
I had hoped not to finish the year writing about conflict and the military, but things being what they are, here I am and there it is. I have contradictory feelings when it comes to the military. I believe it is possible to be grateful for the military in the sense of protecting civilian populations from greater harm given present realities, yet to question the existence and relevance of the military into the future. It isn’t easy to draw any straightforward conclusions about the existence of the military as an entity. Given the history of global conflicts and the ingrained presence of militaries as an institution, it would be naïve to think – or hope — that they will just quietly disappear. If there were no militaries, and no investment in ever more lethal armaments, where would that place us? Two things that might be worth considering here: 1) How the military is portrayed and presented to the public imagination matters 2) Individual and collective mindsets of those in countries that are not at war matter.
With all the talk of peace deals in Ukraine, one thing is noticeably absent from the picture. What is missing in the talks and coverage, is that this moment represents more than a chance to secure a just and lasting peace for Ukraine. This moment represents a chance to set an alternative course for what happens in future. In fact, even the words ‘lasting peace’ could lead us to ask: “How long is ‘lasting’?” Zelensky recently spoke at the Dutch parliament. What he said about Putin and Russia is clear and straight to the point – bullies and murderers must be held accountable. And that means accountability in a legal sense, but also – as Zelensky points out – in the sense of addressing what is behind their behaviour; the drivers and motivation for it. This is a critical element in changing the current trajectory.
It would be unwise, however, to look at accountability for Putin and the Russian state without looking at the way that military thinking and mindsets have contributed. Some would point to Putin’s invasion, and place the cause of the problem squarely with his blatant violation of international law and territorial sovereignty in invading Ukraine. While that is certainly a very large part of it, it is not the whole of the problem. Military thinking, a view that ‘might is right’, and a persistent belief that having enough guns, drones, tanks and troops will eventually settle any conflict, is also part of it. That thinking comes from a long history where military responses and ‘resolutions’ have been the go-to reaction. We could consider it high time to invest wholeheartedly in efforts to prevent conflict, and how to non-violently resolve it. Individual citizens must be the driver of this change.
The Russian invasion of Ukraine is not simply a case of one big bully, or even a bully with a handful of cronies. If it were a schoolyard where this was happening, the case of the recidivist bully who doesn’t heed warnings might elicit a relatively simple response of teaching that bully a hard but necessary lesson. In the case of Putin’s war-machine, there is the bully and his cronies, but also a whole lot of boys with sticks, and a very large crowd of onlookers. If it were the school we were talking about, it would be like a large number of the boys were all involved in the bully’s scheme, believing they were doing the right thing by helping him. Some of those on the sidelines might be cheering them on, while some remained silent and others looked away. This means that accountability for Putin is only one part of the solution. There must be a serious attempt to convey to the average Russian soldier that what they are doing is messed up, hopeless, depraved and toxic. The average Russian citizen must be made just as aware of this. How might this level of awareness be developed?
The rhetoric we hear coming from NATO, and the presentation of the military and how it sits in the popular imagination, is again something which requires careful thought. Billboards featuring soldiers outlined resolutely against a blue sky, with snazzy sunglasses and fancy kit, are presumably designed to create a certain impression of what it’s like to serve in the army – even though the reality may be much different. This presentation of the military is presumably designed to encourage people to sign up and go to war. But, attempting to create a glorious impression of the military surely isn’t helpful to securing a long-term, lasting peace. NATO video clips with tanks traveling at full throttle, blazing gloriously towards battle, are likewise unlikely to represent the day-to-day reality. These are sanitised, selective portrayals of war and the military. They are propaganda.
Mark Rutte, the secretary general of NATO, recently said that Europeans must be “prepared for the scale of war our grandparents and great-grandparents endured”. Rutte is right in that the situation in Ukraine is as much a concern for Europe as it is for Ukraine. While Rutte meets with troops and talks about war readiness, it is possible that Europeans need to be more generally prepared for hardship – and that starts with the average person. How many Europeans would take a 5-day blackout and no water in their stride? Repeated power cuts are nothing unusual in Ukraine. Maybe Europe could introduce “Ukraine Days” where the national grid is disconnected region by region for a few days at a time, so that people understand just how easy it is to take these everyday things for granted. Or maybe airports could randomly close for a few weeks at a time – “Sorry, the airport is closed today – it’s a Ukraine Day”. This kind of interference with everyday life could serve as useful preparation, even without the element of psychological terror that comes from repeated missile strikes.
President of the European Commission, Ursula Von der Leyen, talks about the freedom to live the European way of life, referring to traditions of democracy, and diversity within unity. Europe, as with other developed nations and parts of the world, will face issues of purpose and priorities in the coming decades. Again, this is as much an individual problem, as it is a collective one. In Ukraine there is a sense of purpose that is hard to find in other places. In large parts of the Western world, life has arguably become altogether too easy. The essence of it revolves around being comfortable, having fun and pursuing trivial entertainments – all of which are frequently taken for granted. On an individual level, the same holds true. The rise of the ‘appearance-focused age’, where everything is potentially fodder for an Instagram or Facebook feed, has contributed to significant changes in the mindset of individuals. Western cultures have seen a rise in self-focused viewpoints more generally – from pursuing beauty treatments, fashion or the latest iPhone, to the mindless scrolling of memes. This could be said to represent the ultimate in freedom to live the way we want. These actions represent the right to make choices, yet they offer nothing of substance. How valuable would it be if the sense of cohesion, purpose and dedication to community building was as all-consuming in other parts of the world as it is in Ukraine?
European societies and the people within them have choices to make – both individual and collective choices. On a collective level Europeans can choose to pursue the path of preparing for war the way the world has always known and done – through governments encouraging or requiring military service, through citizens doing what they are told and fighting the citizens of other nations, by investing in arms, building a bigger defence industry and through generally trying to keep fighting fire with fire. This is what happened in past World Wars, and it would seem that some – particularly those of the older generation – would have us keep doing more of it, even though it has not prevented new conflicts from arising. Or, Europe can start to think about alternatives to doing more of the same, and instead start putting time and effort towards establishing a healthier psychological pattern. Even with Putin deposited in The Hague and a war crimes tribunal in place, the mentality underpinning what the world has come to recognise as the Russian war machine – and others like it — needs to be actively challenged by means that don’t involve doing more of the same. There comes a time when hurting bullies the way they are hurting you, does nothing further besides creating a vicious cycle.
So, what does that leave? One option is to try something radically different as a means of getting to the root of the inhumanity that is the Russian war machine. Rather than sending more bullets, artillery shells or drones across the frontlines, it could involve air-drops of a different kind – something to make those soldiers stop and think about what exactly it is they are doing, in a way that maybe hasn’t been tried before. It would seem that after almost four years of conventional war, and the development and adoption of ever more technologies of warfare, a radical change in approach might just be worth a try. There is little to be lost in discharging some radical humanity at the opposing side and seeing how it lands.
Finally, a note about the so-called ‘Coalition of the Willing’. This is something of a contradiction in terms when it surfaces only after three years of all-out war. The idea of stationing troops, or some other force, once a ceasefire deal has been hashed out arguably does not fit the standard definition of ‘willing’. Again, there is mention of military support. A true ‘Coalition of the Willing’ in more than just name or rhetoric would be willing to go the moment there was a hint of trouble in the air. In the case of Ukraine, that would have meant deployment on or around February 24th 2022. Rather than resorting to the same old stuff with tanks and guns, this would be an unarmed force to observe, resist and try something new. The start of any attempt at gross violation and inhumanity represents a simultaneous opportunity to turn that behaviour around right when it surfaces. In an earlier article I referred to the resistance of ‘tank man’ standing his ground, shopping bag in hand, in Tiananmen Square. These are the kinds of actions that could represent a turning point. However, in order to have a true chance at success they would require just as much commitment and investment as any of the strategies currently in use. It would take a great deal more than government announcements and world leaders making speeches. It would require an investment on the part of every person, and the willingness to stand together for as long as it takes.
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Living the ‘dream’: life in a big box

There’s an old song which captures it rather well — the essence of the middle-class dream, as it were. The details might differ – note that Seeger’s little boxes are the BIG boxes of today, and they’re not always on the hillside either. I think of the sprawling, new-build suburbs. I spent three months working in Auckland once. I rented a spare room in what felt like a palatial house occupied by a family of four. Who the architect or property developer had in mind when they built it, I don’t know. That it was far beyond what a family of four needed was patently obvious. This house, as with many of these houses, presumably came at such a price that having a boarder was something of a necessity. AirBnB’s have a similar function when it comes to paying for such places. Again, I have stayed in some of these rooms when I needed a place in the city.
I have come to know what to expect on this front. In my personal experience, the occupants of these houses are often fairly new migrants. When I knock on the door – or, as is more likely these days, when I interact with whatever technological entry system might be in place – I know exactly what to expect. These migrant families are the decent, hardworking, polite kinds of people that tend to be model families. I sometimes wonder if they come to live in such places through deliberate and conscious choice, or that it is simply because this is the housing stock that is available to them, and then they find a way to make it work.
The noticeable thing about these suburbs full of sprawling houses is that they seem to be typified by a lack of any culture at all. For sure, inside the houses there might be something that points to a culture of origin, but even that isn’t always the case. Many feel more like edifices to a cultural no-man’s land – monuments to a lifestyle where the wide-screen TV takes up the better part of a wall, where the furniture is spotless, and the dog (if there is one) is regularly taken to the groomer and does not have a hair out of place. Such dogs don’t smell of dog, they smell of perfume.
The development and uptake of such housing and lifestyles strike me as being something akin to the “American Dream”. Even far away from America, the basic idea is the same: hard work and prosperity go hand in hand. Together, they necessarily result in a certain level of outward affluence. The house must be large, spotless and fashioned with all the latest conveniences. Ideally it needs to have space around it. The streets must be smooth. There must be plenty of room for cars. Then there are the minor accessories that sometimes come with such houses – the cushions or canvases emblazoned with words like: “Live, laugh, dream”, “Hope”, “Family” “Love”. They are sprinkled around like so many little reminders. Now, I am not suggesting that it isn’t possible to do or find those things in a palatial house within a sprawling suburb. But the positive values being promoted don’t require that kind of lifestyle in order for them to flourish. There is something vaguely ironic about having these words splashed around the interior of an immaculate, corporate-consumer castle.
Walking in these kinds of suburbs, I try to imagine what it was like before there were any palatial houses at all – when the land unfolded as acres of rolling harakeke (‘flax’) swamp, with the birds wading and squawking and flitting about, the hum of insects and a warm sun. It is still possible to find it in places. Even the most sprawling of suburbs generally has a park or two where it is possible to walk and visualise what it would have been like before the strange human tendency to build large, tacky boxes all over the place took hold. There is a sharp contrast between the natural beauty of the landscape, and the desire to clutter it up with sprawling suburbia –a suburbia resplendent with large shopping malls, cinemas and car parks.
Seeger’s song can also be referring to state housing. This is perhaps a different idea altogether – that of having large numbers of identical-looking houses built to the same design, as a low-cost means of meeting public housing needs at scale. I am not sure that the sprawling suburbs I have described above are at all the same thing. Those kinds of suburbs feel more like a physical testament to values of growth and material consumption. There might be some who say that this is simply what modern building standards demand — that these large, over-the-top boxes are in fact the minimum standards of a family house in today’s world. To which I would say: are we just slaves to these standards? Whose interests do they serve?
That these places seem to have high numbers of relatively new migrants may just be a reflection of the fact that the sub-set of those living there who rent out their spare rooms are those who are more financially constrained, and that this may be something more common amongst the new immigrant population than those who are more established. It could just be that migrants are more open to sharing their homes with visitors. Maybe it reflects a desire to move to a country where it is possible to live the suburban dream to the fullest. Or it may be that those who have lived in those areas for longer simply refuse to pay the ridiculously high prices that landlords and property developers tend to demand, while new migrants may be more willing to work long hours to pay for this ‘dream’. While these high rents are exploitative, a line-up of willing, middle-class immigrants will ensure they can stay that way.
Seeger’s song touches on the typical life stages of those living in the “ticky, tacky boxes”: first school, then university and finally some kind of professional career. Of course there is value in these things, just as there is value in thoughtful housing development. But, if they are simply a means of living a mindless ideal of consumer-culture, then it would seem nothing more than a way of reproducing the same system for generations to come, complete with all its inequalities and wastefulness.
A final point is the extent to which any of this is self-chosen. Seeger’s lyrics suggest that it is imposed from outside – that “they all got put in boxes” whether they liked it or not. To me this is an interesting consideration. How much can any of us really choose our housing and lifestyle? There is this sense that we are limited to what there is – we might have in mind an ideal kind of house that would be just right for us. Maybe it’s small, simple, well-insulated, and energy efficient. However, many factors are likely to constrain our choices. These factors include everything from affordability and availability, to land zoning, building standards, and cultural ideas of the ‘normal’ house. If we refuse to keep paying into a culture that celebrates a very large and tacky box at the centre of its housing ‘dream’, then we might just find ourselves living at the margins of that society.
Image Credit: A.I.
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The Illusion of Military Necessity: A Critical Perspective

The photos are all much the same, and there seem to be a lot of them. Rows of — predominantly male – troops. Unsmiling faces aligned in the same direction. Firearms locked into symmetrical rows. The same haircuts. The same uniforms. Minor differences are to be found in the sewn-on country flags and maybe the type of firearm. The military. I look at these images and am filled with an overwhelming sense of dismal futility. Sometimes I wonder if I’m the only one who has this feeling. There’s news of more military investment coming from all quarters now. New munitions factories are opening in parts of Europe. There’s even a sense that some feel it’s a productive and unifying endeavour to rally around investing in tanks and armaments.
I wonder dully what my paternal grandfather would make of it. He, and many others of his generation, probably thought that in fighting for the duration of WW2 they were effectively guaranteeing it wouldn’t happen again: that others wouldn’t have to; that all of the mess and chaos would somehow be worth it. Even if their own lives were never going to be the same again, it would stop with them. It was a sacrifice, they thought, to ensure that Europe would be free; that the world would learn and move on and never resort to this madness again. On returning home in 1945, my grandfather’s conviction that “Europe is rotten” was firmly held. The family would move away, as many did at the time, for a new start a world away.
The other side of the family lived under occupation. Without knowing the details, I would guess the experience shaped outlook and thinking in fundamental ways. The sense that persecution could be anywhere – that neighbours might disappear, ‘they’ might come for you, and even if ‘they’ didn’t – you’d better be on your guard because there was no guaranteeing anything. Threat was the norm. Food was to be rationed. And anything that might be of some use should be kept, just in case. Even tulip bulbs might take on a new life. My family’s experience was by no means unique. One could say they were fortunate – certainly a lot more fortunate than many others.
‘The Military’, then. Back in June I received an email bearing these two words in its ominous subject line. The preamble of the attached newsletter starts like this:
“International humanitarian law (IHL) represents a balancing of priorities that have often been seen as being in tension: military necessity, on the one hand, and considerations of humanity, on the other. Inherent in this balancing act is the idea that military necessity and humanitarian imperatives are equally valid priorities that can be accommodated under the same legal framework to achieve related goals, allowing the military to fight effectively while avoiding needless suffering and destruction.”
–IRRC Vol. 107, No.928: The Military
As is typical of academic language – “a balancing of priorities that have often been seen as being in tension” – it is careful to tread very lightly and hedge its bets at every turn. It does not say, as some might, that trying to balance ‘military necessity’ (whatever that might be) and ‘humanity’ while ‘avoiding needless suffering and destruction’ and ‘allowing the military to fight effectively’ represents a complete clutter-fuck of competing priorities that are difficult, if not impossible, to reconcile. And as is typical of legal language, the terms tend to be slippery. Slippery, and superficially persuasive. What sounds good on paper may be quite different on the ground. I learned this early on through terms like ‘reasonable force’ and ‘restraint’. What is ‘reasonable’ and what constitutes ‘restraint’ is very much up to individual interpretation. To a lawyer sitting in their office with a view to the ducks floating on the pond outside, ‘reasonable force’ and ‘restraint’ are likely to be something inherently reasonable, moderate and well-intentioned. I’m guessing they might add something like ‘as a last resort’ or ‘as a preventative of greater harm’ if pressed to define the terms. To someone working in a detention centre, it could simply mean something they use in order to get their job done in a reasonable length of time. And if that means a bit of common assault or manhandling to get the job done, then to them that’s ‘reasonable force’ and ‘restraint’.
When we look at conflict, the reality might not be all that different. If a cranky little dictator decides he wants to expand his empire just that little bit further south, then there’s ‘military necessity’ as far as he’s concerned. Oh, but it’s illegal to resort to force in such a way, the lawyers and scholars might say. Jus ad bellum or jus in bello — the Latin terms, as well as the distinctions between imperial ambitions of territorial expansion or legitimate self-defence, don’t seem to matter a great deal in practice. And what’s more, reality doesn’t wait for the law. It bowls ahead and flattens a few more towns before anyone can say ‘IHL’. I suspect there are those who might say that even in the midst of these flagrant violations, the fact there is this ‘body of law’ means that there is a mechanism for accountability. Ha. The world could be waiting a very long time for every civilian death to be accounted for, for the destruction of every civilian building to be noted and remedied, for all the atrocities and violations to be painstakingly documented in courts of law, and for every victim to be fairly compensated as is their ‘right’. Again, experience would suggest that finite resources, limited political will and competing priorities will dictate that only the worst and most egregious cases are heard. As for the rest, well. Maybe they can take comfort in the fact that even though there’s no justice for them, there’s still this beautiful theoretical possibility and it’s called ‘IHL’.
It seems there is still this idea – and it may be closer to a delusion now — that somehow something like IHL and other paper-based rules and treaties are this gentlemanly thing that exists out there, in spite of the flagrant violations in all directions. Some would argue that it is still better than nothing, and maybe they hope that the doctrine of being a ‘proper gentleman’ in conducting warfare will one day prevail. This is despite plenty of evidence to the contrary suggesting that the likes of Putin and Netanyahu have no interest in being proper gentlemen, and are unlikely to suddenly be born-again in that regard. Maybe there is a sense that if the average soldier can be taught to respect and internalise IHL, then that’s something to be celebrated, never mind what the leader of his or her country might have in mind regarding total domination or wanton destruction.
I do not wish to go into the contents of that newsletter I received back in June. Suffice to say that after the initial preamble, the articles within largely seemed to glide effortlessly past the elephant in the room, broadly the elephant outlined above, to focus on various aspects of military development and practice. At a time like this, these feel like little more than distractions and diversions from the very large elephant that is currently lumbering about, looking at the next thing it might charge into. The newsletter describes its content as “topics of interest to both the humanitarian and military communities”, as if somehow these are two cosy little camps with their respective members gathering about the campfire to share interesting stories, both of them with equally valid, reasonable and worthy causes.
I think we need to be clear. Arguably there is no such thing as ‘military necessity’. Rather than blithely skipping ahead and looking at all these seemingly interesting side issues and the ramifications of various technological developments, maybe it’s necessary to take a step back and look at what exactly the options are. Parading the troops about, investing in arms, building munitions factories and focusing on gathering tanks and drones is one option. It is not the only option. And it is not necessary in the same way that humanitarian considerations are necessary. Without the basics of life, people die. Without an almost automatic recourse to violence and preparing for it, we have the possibility to think through what other options might be available. We can remember the Second World War, and rather than concluding that the answer is still the same as it ever was, we could think about what large-scale alternatives might actually look like. Impossible? Surely no more so than trying to reconcile the deadly consequences of resorting to war.
Image and Title Credit: AI
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On IHL: A poem
We’re still going to kill each other,
But we’ll be civil about it, see.
Here’s my side and this land, and me,
And there’s your side, the other, and thee.
We’ve all heard the saying “thou shalt not kill”
But when it’s called War, there’s rules, and we’re gentlemen still.
Some of yours’ll die, and some of ours, horribly too,
But we’ll take care to ensure collateral is few
And that it isn’t for nothing. The collateral must be
Strictly proportionate and necessary
In order to meet our objectives. Our military ends.
It is possible the collateral may increase a bit
As our objectives change and evolve.
Objectives do that, especially military ones.
The rules specify that some things are valid targets,
And others are not.
While our objective might be to crush you, if not totally then completely,
We must remind ourselves not to crush your hospitals,
Your schools, your churches, your homes –
Oh, and your civilians. Yes. Your civilians.
They do tend to get in the way a bit.
We haven’t entirely worked out a way to avoid crushing them too.
The rules say they must be spared. If possible. Does make it tricky, doesn’t it?
Well, as we said right at the start – we’re still going to kill each other.
To rule, or not to rule? That is the question.
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Sudan: victim of too many crises?

“There should not be a competition between crises. But unfortunately we’re seeing with everything going on in the world, other conflicts, other humanitarian crises and other things making headlines, that unfortunately Sudan is – I wouldn’t even call it forgotten – it’s ignored.” — Leni Kinzli
Kinzli is right. Sudan is ignored. If we go by the numbers, 30 million people in need of humanitarian assistance — that’s roughly two thirds of the population (ACAPS, 2025), 9 million displaced and 3.7 million acutely malnourished children (Goldhagen et al, 2024), then Sudan should be a lot more prominent in the media than it is. According to Oxfam, it is the world’s largest humanitarian crisis. It should be making the headlines in ways that it isn’t. It should be up there alongside Ukraine and Gaza, yet it isn’t. When I read about Zamzam, I wondered why news of what happened there didn’t register back in April. Other things did. Somehow Zamzam escaped notice. Sudan wasn’t on the radar – or at least, not as prominently as it might have been.
Two things seem clear at this point: one is that media attention and press coverage do not necessarily converge according to numbers of people affected, or areas of greatest need. This reminds me of a lecturer I had at university, asking why most of us in a graduate zoology class were fixated on studying large, visually dominant vertebrates, when the most numerous species in the world were insects. Why, indeed? He called it species bias. The same could be said for geographical bias in terms of global attention and response to crises.
Maybe it’s human psychology to pay attention to things that are flashy and attention grabbing, or to focus our efforts on places that are felt to be like us, close to us, or somehow connected. How a crisis develops can have an impact too: the perceived level of injustice, or the suddenness of onset. Conflicts that are slow to develop, or long-standing, might garner less coverage than flashpoint disasters. A political element, such as the UK’s relationship with the United Arab Emirates outlined here in the case of Sudan, may be at play. Whatever the reasons, it would seem that the collective psyche should be on guard against this tendency to pay selective attention – and that moving towards analysis and investment based on numbers and need is a necessary correction.
Second is the fact that breaking news columns tend to feature an assortment of useless fluff amongst the range of grim realities. Competing with news of genocides and global conflicts, are stories about Taylor Swift’s new love interest, or some development in the personal life of Meghan Markle. For one thing, we only have so much time and attention. Weeding the news is time-consuming. It’s distracting. And it seems to suggest that the love interests of a musician are somehow equally deserving of our collective attention as life-and-death humanitarian emergencies.
Reflecting on those last two words humanitarian emergencies, it is possible to take a more philosophical approach. Calhoun (2010) does just that in an article titled ‘The idea of Emergency: Humanitarian Action and Global (Dis) Order.’ He describes what he calls ‘the emergency imaginary’ – a way of thinking that construes these as large, unpredictable events emerging out of nowhere, rather than the result of long-term political, economic, environmental and social factors coming to a head – a therefore predictable phenomenon. Coupled with that is the immediacy of news of such events, and how they are portrayed:
“This sense of suddenness and unpredictability is reinforced by the media, especially by television. The continuous stream of reporting on gradually worsening conditions is minimal and usually consigned to the back pages of newspapers and specialist magazines. It doesn’t make the cut for headlines—let alone half-hour broadcast news programs. So when violence or vast numbers of people lining up at feeding stations do break through to garner airtime, they seem to have come almost from nowhere.”
Again, I am reminded of a university lecturer, a different one this time, who predicted with an uncanny degree of accuracy the potential impacts of an earthquake occurring in a particular place. Five years later, the predictions came true – not through the major geological fault line he’d been referring to, but an altogether smaller and lesser known one. The combination of building in a particular area, a range of older, unreinforced buildings, and the human tendency to ignore low-likelihood, high-impact scenarios and fail to plan for them, combined with a natural event outside of anyone’s control. It had all the hallmarks of an emergency: unpredictable, devastating — yet very predictable in what the consequences might be if one had cared to look ahead and listen.
In light of this tendency to focus on emergencies, Calhoun describes who, or what, he believes ‘humanitarian’ has come to signify:
“The term “humanitarian” now is reserved for actions free from longer-term political or economic entanglements, actions deemed right in themselves, the necessary moral response to emergencies. It is something good to do without waiting for progress, even if you have doubts that progress will ever come. The emergency has become definitive because it is understood to pose immediate moral demands that override other considerations”
“It is the focus on immediate response suggested by the emergency imaginary, with its emphasis on apparently sudden, unpredictable, and short-term explosions of suffering. And it is sustained by the experience—or at least the hope—of altruistic work, of work embedded in direct moral purpose.”
Something good to do; the hope of altruistic work…with direct moral purpose. And, crucially, something good to do and by implication to feel good about, while wider circumstances, root causes and contributing factors are not addressed. It is not hard to see parallels, or similar ways of thinking, that take place in other settings. Take criminal offending and the justice system, for example. An offender is brought to trial. The offender is duly convicted and sent to jail. This too, is a reaction to an emergency of sorts: a moral and legal reaction to a criminal act. And while a judge might mention mitigating factors like the offender’s personal circumstances, the wider societal systems, and what might be a wide range of factors that lead to criminal offending, are left unaddressed. The emergency – or the offender – having been dealt with, life goes on until the next case comes along: another urgent response, another prison sentence or intervention, and maybe a sense that justice and morality has been served once again. Yet the long-term problems, the structural inequalities and issues that plague a society may persist, resulting in the same preventable things happening again.
Calhoun summarises this way of thinking as follows: “Emergency” thus is a way of grasping problematic events, a way of imagining them that emphasizes their apparent unpredictability, abnormality, and brevity and that carries the corollary that response—intervention—is necessary.’
We could look at Calhoun’s article about emergencies and point to the fact that these thoughts were written 15 years ago. Has the world moved on? From looking at the media today, it would seem that it hasn’t. We are still in a state of panning attention from one breaking emergency to the next, with what seems to be an ever-growing demand on our collective attention, and our potential for action. Attention is not necessarily given according to need, meaning that certain countries or regions, such as Sudan, are ignored and effectively left behind. The tendency to think in terms of emergency and urgent response, largely ignores root causes and the predictable, cumulative effects that build-up to create the next breaking ‘emergency’. The last word, too, shall go to Calhoun:
But transforming the global order—say, by making it more egalitarian as a way of limiting future suffering—is not on the manager’s agenda.
Reference: Calhoun, C. (2010). The idea of emergency: Humanitarian action and global (dis) order. Contemporary states of emergency: The politics of military and humanitarian interventions, 29-58.
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Gaza, war and the cost of inaction

1 Shahed drone: between 20 – 50,000 USD
1 Patriot air defence missile system: 4 million USD
Estimated cost of reconstruction in Gaza: 50 billion+
Estimated reconstruction costs in Ukraine: 524 billion
Climate change adaptation costs : USD 140 billion to 300 billion per annum by 2030
What do these figures illustrate? That war itself is very costly, cleaning up the aftermath may well be even costlier, and to put it all in perspective: there are ample costs as it is. The cost of climate change adaptation, for example. They are costs that require cooperation, not conflict. And this is only in terms of money and financial cost. Add to that the costs of displacement: again, financial, but also the psychological burden. Factor in the disruption to lives and livelihoods, intergenerational trauma, human rights violations, grief and loss: the costs are phenomenal. Meanwhile, valuable time and resources for combating climate change are being diverted towards conflicts. Even thoughts and intellectual effort are directed towards military ends, rather than towards solving shared problems.
Many of the places currently facing conflict or war, were already in a precarious situation, with poverty, environmental constraints and climate change. Take Sudan, for example:
BBC: Sudan War – https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cjel2nn22z9o
“Its 46 million people were living on an average annual income of $750 (£600) a head in 2022. The conflict has made things much worse. Last year, Sudan’s finance minister said state revenues had shrunk by 80%.”
Or Gaza:
BBC: Gaza War – https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ckglpk9xjewo
“The UN says water shortages in Gaza are worsening due to the lack of fuel and spare parts for desalination, pumping and sanitation facilities, as well as insecurity and inaccessibility due to Israeli military operations against Hamas and evacuation orders. As a result, many people are receiving less than the emergency standard of 15 litres per day, amounting to what the UN calls ‘a human-made drought crisis’. ”
The current situation in Gaza is abundantly clear: starvation and famine. Food is not getting through. When it does, desperate civilians are being killed trying to get to it. In the face of all this, what do we do? Trying to ensure food trucks get into Gaza is proving difficult enough. Is it still worth donating money in the hope this somehow translates into aid on the ground reaching those that need it? Does pressuring governments make any difference, when the views and statements of those governments seem like little more than dust in the wind?
The Gaza conflict is approaching the two-year mark. What started with horror at the actions of Hamas, turned to horror at the actions of the Israeli Defence Force. To provide context, the figures are around 1200 people killed by Hamas in the October 7th attack, with 251 taken hostage, and 58,895 people killed by Israel at the time this article was published. Israel’s right to defend, fails to hold up when compared to the numbers of civilians killed in Gaza.
There has been a certain level of intellectual ambivalence with regards to this particular conflict. We can look at how the war started, and see that this was a clear attack on Israel. Even today, Israeli hostages remain in Gaza, at least twenty of whom are believed to be alive. Israel has vowed they won’t stop until they have rid Gaza of Hamas. As an individual it feels hard to hold a complete view on the situation. The political realities are complex, and they span long lengths of time well before the events of 7th October 2023. There are alliances of traditional allies that have influenced the timing and nature of political responses, and indeed the reluctance of some states to condemn Israel’s actions. Not only is it hard to grasp the politics just by reading about it, but there are also questions over motivations and views, and whether the views presented by politicians, academics or professionals in Western media are representative of significant parts of their respective populations, or not.
Finally, there is the familiar back and forth that has come to characterise other situations of conflict around the world. One state, being accused of something, quickly denies or disputes it, saying it’s not the truth. With restrictions on media reporting, such as is currently the case in Gaza, this becomes impossible to verify or fact check for the average person. Further complicating matters is the fact that most reported figures from Gaza are courtesy of ‘The Hamas-run Health Ministry’. How much trust one can place in those figures, and any concerns about bias, have to be balanced by the fact that when it is the only form of reporting of civilian casualties, it would be unwise to dismiss them out of hand. How much trust can be placed in any of Gaza’s institutions feels like a similar balancing act. But while Hamas might run Gaza, how much support do they really command?
Potential resolutions or ways forward that have been discussed include the release of Israeli hostages held in Gaza as a starting point, an arms embargo on Israel, the use of sanctions, and recognition of a Palestinian state and a two-state solution. These are mostly high-level responses involving long-term efforts and negotiations. The immediate issue that won’t wait for any of that to happen, or not happen, is the starving civilians in Gaza. Standing in a crushing crowd with a tin basin in hand to collect food, keeping the sun away with it as one continues to wait, is not something anyone should have to endure. Children carrying jerry cans of water, if they’re able to find any, or doubled up under crippling loads, are not something the world should tolerate as images of childhood. People starving to death in the 21st Century is not something the world must accept. The solutions to immediate humanitarian necessities such as these must be considered an immediate priority, separate to discussions around what the long-term future might look like. It is an indictment on our joint humanity if there isn’t an end to this – and soon.
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